Sunday, April 29, 2007

Phewwwwwww...Wat a fun filled weekend..It allllll started on Thursday when I went to Harry's dressed in orange for an event..It was fun hanging out with my laus,Sarah and her friends..I made new friends!! Hema and Anjali..We gave each other polite smiles when we were standing outside Harry's and 15 mins later, we're bitching abt Indian men and laughing our asses off..Then after Sarah left, the 3 of us went to Chillies with Stan,Suraj and William..I tell you, these 3 men entertained us with stories and videos the whole nite..Chillies is actually a cool place to hang out..I loved the view from the balcony.

Friday was supposed to be a ladies night out with my 2 new kakis, Priya and Rebecca. These 2 girls rock my world!! Hehee..We spent the first part of the night at Harry's, trying out different cocktails,bitching and indulging in yummy food. Its amazing how you can immediately click with people you've just met. After spending a good 3 hrs there, we met the guys and headed to Gotham where we shook what our mamas gave us!!! Hehe..It was an awesome night complete with vodka,tequila shots,semi naked men,lesbian indulgences and cam whoring at its finest!

I barely recovered from Friday night when Rebecca mentioned heading to Pump Room at night..But we ended up at Tango's in Holland V where I had the most awesome lamb rack!! *drools* Plus an equally yummy Cosmopolitian!!

And today I had a nice time chilling by the Esplanade and indulging in ice cream..Yum. This was by far the most eventful weekend Ive had and I enjoyed every moment of it!
PS: Eh Ive had enough drama from BFF..Seriously you keep contradicting yourself.So Im gonna do you a favour and ignore you. Coz ppl like you thrive on retaliation. Pfft.

Monday, April 23, 2007

Never ever EVER go for Bodycombat after a 2 week hiatus..

Esp when you're still recovering from a back sprain from bending over to apply makeup for 6 dancers in a row..

Pfttt...Clever Sumi.

Anyone else feeling empty? I feel empty.. Nothing-ness..Devoid of feelings..And its not nice. I hate it. I don't want to feel this way but I do. Somedays I just feel that even if I scream out loud, no one will hear me. I guess its coz I am a very good actress. I may be feeling like crap but I'll still have a smile on my face for someone else in need of cheering up. I swear ppl actually get shocked when they find out Im depressed. They're like "But how can you be depressed? You're Sumi!!"

Like hellooooo??? I am the depression queen. I just hide it very well. Only my heart shaped pillow with arms (courtesy of Ikea) knows my every tear and sob story.


Monday blues and all that crap..

Im all out of faith, this is how I feel
Im cold and Im ashamed, bound and broken on the floor
You're a little late,
Im already torn

PS: Oh a ray of joy..My Bobbi Brown Gel Liner and MAC Red lippie just arrived in the mail..Hehehe


Monday, April 16, 2007

Ive been dating for a year plus now..Been on a few good ones and several horrible ones..And several too-boring-to-mention ones.. So the following tips are for males who genuinely wanna get that girl they've been after.Who genuinely wanna be with her and not fuck it up.

1) Make an effort when you ask her out. Dont go 'Eh you wanna meet?'. I know you wanna sound cool and not like you are dying to meet her (although you are)..But it just tells us we are not as impt as we would like to be.

2) Plan the date. Pls.Seriously..One of my pet peeves is indecisive men. Dont go 'So where you wanna meet? Ermm you tell laa..I have no clue'. If you like the girl enough you WILL have some clue where you wanna bring her. It doesnt need to be some high end restaurant. We know when you've put some effort in it. Even if its to the movies, at least book the tics in advance to show you reaaaaallly wanted to watch the movie with her.

3) Never ask to see her after midnight..It just screams booty call. Trust me I know.

4) This is for bonus points. Get her a small gift..Doesnt need to be expensive. Get her fav chocolate as a pressie.She'll be impressed that you actually remembered what her fav choc is. But if you wanna get her flowers or jewellery, lets just say you prob will score VERY high in the potential BF list! Hehe..

5) Never answer your phone in the cinema!! OMG this is another pet peeve..I have shushed dates when they not only forgot to put their phones on silent but also proceeded to answer the bloody call!!! Bad bad manners..

6) Never diss her friends..Even as a joke. In fact if you're really into the girl you will make an effort to get to know her friends.Trust me as long as her best friend likes you, you're gold.

7) Don't be stupid and check out other girls in her prescence. Seriously how dumb can you get? At least do it discreetly and not go 'OMG did you check out the rack on her?' *slaps across the face*

8) Contrary to popluar belief, girls read alot into body language. We take everything into consideration. If we are NOT that into you yet and you attempt to hold our hands immediately, we label you pervert. If we ARE into you and you DONT attempt to hold our hands, we think you are not interested and therefore are a bastard for leading us on. Yes we are complicated creatures. That's why you love us.

9) You pay on the first date. I am old school. Yes I am an independent woman who has her own money.But first dates are always on the guy.Always. If it ever proceeds to the 2nd date then I will be happy to pick up the tab. Dont be a cheapo.

10) You dont have to be all P Diddy like..But pls put some thought into your dressing. Maybe its just me but when a guy turns up in shorts and slippers for the 1st date it just doesnt show that he is interested. Maybe he just wants a relak one corner buddy. Sadly I have enough of those.

11) Guys..Come on..You can spend hundreds on PS2 and Xbox games..Hundreds on getting a new handphone..Hundreds on remodelling ya car..But you cant spend $2.50 on deodarant?? BO is NOT a turn on..NOT!!

12) Try not to have the date at a club..Again screams booty call coz it might seem all you wanna do is get her drunk. *shakes finger* Not good.

13) Pls talk. Seriously.If you don't talk I will assume you would rather be somewhere else. And then I will just leave. Seriously.

14) If you have transportation of your own, offer to pick her up or send her back. Especially if the date runs late. It shows you are thoughtful and not a cheapo esp if she stays in Jurong and you stay in Pasir Ris. Though we understand it cant be an every date thing, but it'll definately impress us if you offer.

15) Never tell us we have too much makeup on. Do I tell you have too much/little facial hair? Do I tell you your shirt doesnt go with your shoes? So shut up till you know us better.

16) Don't be late. Pls.

17) Call when you say you're gonna call. Don't make us wait and become paranoid. We will start calling our friends and analyze every word you said. We don't need more mental and emotional stress especially if we thought the date went pretty well.

18) Be honest. Nobody's gonna benefit from playing games.

Phew..Thats all I got for the moment. Let me know if you can think of any..


Thursday, April 12, 2007

I read this and wanted to weep and laugh at the same time..

The nice men are ugly.
The handsome men are not nice.
The handsome and nice men are gay.
The handsome,nice and hetrosexual men are married.
The men who are NOT so handsome but are nice men, have no money.
The men who are NOT so handsome but are nice men with money, think we are only after their money.
The handsome men without money are after our money.
The handsome men who are NOT so nice and somewhat hetrosexual don't think we are beautiful enough.
The men who think we are beautiful,that are hetrosexual,somewhat nice and have money are pigs.
The men who are somewhat handsome,somewhat nice and have some money and hetrosexual are shy and NEVER make the first move!
The men who never make the first move automatically lose interest in us when we take the initiative.

Now..Who in the world understands men???

Men are like a fine wine.They all start out like grapes and its our job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark till they mature into something you would like to have dinner with.
How true..I SO agree..
And to more something more fun..One of the eyeshadow forums I'm in (aptly named Eyeshadow Sluts..Hehe), is having a theme this week..Namely The 7 Deadly Sins..So we're supposed to recreate looks according to the sin we choose. And I wanted to do Wrath..I liked how it turned out though I was being lazy with my foundation..Can't wait to do Envy and Lust!! Hehe..

Oh and Mages..add me on MSN ( and we'll chat abt the makeup!!


Sunday, April 08, 2007

Long photo post ahead!!
So I went shopping with my lovely Sarah last week..I was only supposed to get 1 item..A much coveted chromeglass from MAC..But obviously when you put 2 shopaholics together you end up with SO much more!!
Sarah persuaded me to get this yummy pair of shades..I call these my 'I can see you but you cant see me' shades..Totally useful when checking out the hotties..Not that there are an abundance of them out there..But still..

My 3 current favourite letters in the English language put together..
MAC..Nuff said..

From left to right: Mineralize Skin Finisher in Glissade, Chromeglass in Metaphysical and Shimmer Blush in Peachtwist. *Sigh of contention*

Then we passed by Future State selling tops at a ridiculously low price..So we each grabbed a top. I is liking my red top.

Dinner at Sakura!!!

So as I have mentioned, one of my besties Saras announced her marriage plans like 2 mths ago.. So her engagement of sorts was on Wed..And I went to do her makeup on her special day..I tell you the girl was already glowing without makeup!! So sweet!!

Then on Thurs..I made the unfortunate mistake of following Nesh on a spinning gig at some undoh Indian club before heading to Phunk..My goodness.. *shudders in disgust* But at least we had lots of camwhoring moments in the cab.

Just found out something that would have normally crushed me..But since I've been through worse shit..Im not THAT affected..But it still hurts to be lied to. And I feel bad for the other party as well. This song sums everything up.

He said I'm worth it, his one desire

I know things about him that you wouldn't want to read about

He kissed me, his one and only

Tell me how you tolerate the things you just found out about

Why are we the ones who suffer

Let's not kill the Karma

Let's not start a fight

It's not worth the drama

For a Beautiful Liar

Can't we laugh about it ,It's not worth our time,We can live without

Tell me how to forgive you,When its me who's ashamed?

And I wish I could free you of the hurt and the pain but the answer is simple he's the one to blame

I really wish I could stuff all the cheating lying motherfuckin bastards into a ditch and start shooting at them repeatedly after castrating their cheating dicks..

*blows fringe off her forehead*


Monday, April 02, 2007

Pradhana was so blehhhhhhh I started taking stupid pics.. And my FAV stupid pic was this..

Heheheh I liked it coz firstly it showed off my Peacocky glitter liner..And secondly you could see the amount of free time I have from my sari-eyeshadow colour coordinated nails..Hahahaha..And yet another crazy face pic..I was a lil mentally off that day. Pre PMSyness does that to you..

Why do confused men leave me equally confused..I've learnt how to protect myself emotionally this past 1 yr. And that's after several mistakes and heartache. I've become stronger and wiser when it comes to dealing with men. But every now and then, a blast from the past stirs up feelings that I thought I would never have for that person again.

So my shout out to you..(Not the ex,I keep having to have this disclaimer coz several ppl assume alot from my words and run to tell my ex that I am still into him)..Back to my shout out.

I've had enough of your rollercoaster emotions and appearances. This time, you either want me or you don't. You can't keep doing this to me coz its hurting and confusing. I do admit I have a soft spot for you, which is why I keep letting you in every time you make an appearance.But for my mental and emotional wellbeing's sake, you have to make a decision and stick to it.

In or out?

So please..Don't chase me anymore unless you're ready to catch me..

Its your choice..