Sunday, December 31, 2006

So the year has come to an end..


Every year we moan abt how horrible that year was and that the new year should be better..Well for me 2006 was a year of change..of acceptance..of tears..of joy..of self realisation.

I've never been through a year of so much ups and downs as I did this year. It was the first year I started as a singleton..The year I finally graduated..The year I learnt so much abt men and certain women..The year I threw caution to the wind and did what I wanted to do instead of conforming to everyone else's image of how I should be.

So I wait eagerly for what 2007 has in store for me. 2006 taught me how to be strong as a woman. I hope 2007 is the year I learn to be comfortable in my own skin and acheive my career goals.

My best new year wishes to all my lovelies and blogders..Happy New Year!!!


Thursday, December 28, 2006

Stupid slow laggy internet connection..

Not that I have super important things to acheive on the Internet..

Lets see..I log on to MSN..Check out who's online..And god willing ppl are online at the odd hrs of the day I log on. Then I check my email which usually consists of deleting a whole load of junk mail..Then I load my Friendster page..Yes Friendster..All you ppl who start giving me the you-are-pathetic face can kiss my ass..Coz I know you are all closet Friendster hounds as well. What better way to spend your day than to prowl thru total strangers' pages and figure out what is happening in their lives through their photo captions or their Abt Me section..

Seriously.. You can figure out:

1) Who's recently attached
Captions/Description: I've finally found the love of my life..Blah blah..Insert sappy love song lyrics and probably the Munbe Vaa music video

2) Who recently broke up with who
Captions/Description: You broke my heart,soul,blah blah..Insert sad/angry song lyrics depending on how they broke up and preferbly a song by Destiny's Child or Beyonce like Survivor or Irreplaceable.

3) Who's fighting with who
Captions/Description: Damn bitch,you wanna be me?? Try harder you slut..Blah blah..Insert description of who the damn bitch is and what is in store for her if she enters Ang Mo Kio, Jurong or Tampines.

4) Who has no life
Captions/Description: All the pics on the profile are those of celebrities..Like Surya or Aishwarya.. And the captions read..My cuuuutteee husband..My sweeeet wife.. (I would like to point out at this moment I only have ONE pic of Vikram on my page and that was only coz I was veryyyyyy bored..Thank you very much)

5) Who has to be checked into a mental institute
Captions/Description: All pics are grabbed from other users who seem to have no connection to the user..With captions like..Isnt she hot?..Check out her tits.. Like seriously dude..Wat is WRONG with you???

6) Who went to which club when
Captions/Description:Pics are usually all taken at various clubs in various stages of drunkeness..Sometimes with friends..At times with random strangers. When you go through these profiles, you secretly feel envious at the loads of fun they seem to be having..Then you start wondering where the hell do they find the time, money and most importantly ENERGY to club almost everyday!! Those were the days..*Sighs wistfully*

So yeah..Friendster plays a big ass part in normal ppl's lives..Even nerds and social deviants are on Friendster..Sad but true..So if you turn up your nose at Friendster..I say to you..

BLEEEEEEEEEHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH..*Complete with tongue sticking out*

*Goes back to her aimless Friendster surfing*


Friday, December 22, 2006

So I was clubbing after a long ass time last week..And what fun the spontaneous Wed night clubbing was! Taking silly-trying-to-be-pouty-but-failing pics (See right)..discovering we have overgrown alot of Boat Quay clubs..deciding that giving O Bar a second chance was a good thing..Dancing for every godforsaken song..Matching shot for shot (For god's sake, how to beat the Shots Queen! I gave up at 6)..And finally admitting we laus Gotham no matter how Indianfied its becoming. And realising we have the most fun when its just the two of us..Strange but true.

And on Sat I was dragged to Ashoka after a wedding by Nesh..It's been a year since I've stepped into Ashoka and I realised there was a good reason why..Hahaha..It was okay I guess though I spent most of the time guarding the vodka bottle.

Ooo Christmas is sooo near..And Orchard has been soo packed for the past week with last min shoppers. Though I have to admit the sales are so bloody tempting.Sigh..Me and my Bangkok trip. But I still got to window shop and got some info to share with the ladies.. La Senza..Yes the very sexy and oh-so-yummy La Senza is having a mega sale!! Everything's 50-70% off! I swear..And they have undies going at 5 for $25..Super worth it. Esp the corsets..I'm not sure if its at all the outlets..I'm very sure of the Plaza Sing one.

This week has been a particularly interesting one..Lets see..Deja Vu..Night at the museum,Burger King,Swensons,California Pizza Kitchen,Rainy weather..Cold hands..Polka dot dress..Late night smses..Early morning phone calls..You..Me.

Urgh..I have to travel ALL the way to Pasir Ris tml..For a make up appt for a talk show.At 8 bloody am! Wahhh..Shoot me now. Pls.


Monday, December 18, 2006

Second chances..

Do you believe in them? Under what circumstances does one agree to a second chance?

The drama that surrounded my break up drove me to believe I would never in a million years even think of giving the psycho ex a 2nd chance. But after being on the dating scene for a year, I started wondering what if..


Coz I've probably been meeting the worst of the crop.Lets see.. Married ones, I-just-want-a-physical-rship ones, I-want-a-supermodel-and-you-just-dont-make-the-cut ones, I-have-a-gf-but-I-like-you ones, I-don't-know-what-I-want-in-life ones..Etc..

So being thrown into the dating scene so abruptly, I was bewildered at the different kinds of specimen we call men. And a lil taken aback. So fast forward one year..And I'm still confused..But at least I have come to terms with accepting that men will be men. Yes there are the bastards and the psychos..But I know of a few good men..Hehe..The ones one would kill to be loved by. The ones who treat women with the respect we deserve. The ones who have no hidden agenda.

And with that hope, I rid myself of the unthinkable thoughts of second chances. That singular lapse of judgement would have have cost me so much more heartpain,bruises,threats,cheating and constant living in fear for the years to come.

I believe all women who have been disrespected and abused deserve so much more.

And I believe I deserve so much more.


Thursday, December 14, 2006

Bangkok was a blast!! All that anticipation sure paid off..Me, Joanne,Jason and my sis..Phew..5 days of shopping,seafood,bargaining and Baileys-ing!!

I know everybody would be like 3 girls and 1 guy!! Poor thing la the guy..Hell no laa..He was the one who was enjoying the most! He bought the most stuff,drank the most beer (coz we hate beer!) and constantly got a kick outta bargaining everything down to HIS price..But you know I still laus you Jason!! Oooo massages are so freaking cheap there!! A 2 hr full body massage was only 500 baht! Though I was a lil taken aback when she started placing her feet where feet shouldn be placed! Hehehe..But it was all good..We also went for 2 foot massages over the 5 days. *singsongs in Thai accent* "200 baht only madam!"

We went for the Tiffany show and we were already on our way to depression..Like seriously their boobs were so perfect!! And the clothes they wore! *Wipes forehead* But it was all good. They were quite the entertainers.

Shopping!! Lord we had a blast shopping..Everything is so freakin cheap there! Me and my sis had a Hallelujah moment once we stepped into MBK and another similar moment at Chatuchak market. Though I had amazing self control when it came to buying stuff for myself. My sis kept saying "Why cant you have this self control in Spore??There you see a pair of shoes and you just HAVE to have it..Here things are so cheap and you dont wanna buy" Haha.I was more preoccupied getting stuff for my friends and family.Though I did get whatever I went there for. *Evil smile* Check out my loot!

Accessories are dirt cheap there! Forget 3 for $10..Think less than a dollar each!! We were grabbing stuff without even thinking if we had anything to match it with. When initialised crystal necklaces go for 30 freaking baht, you don't ask questions!

Sigh..I wanna go back every year and shop! Its soooo worth it. This trip proved to be a wonderful bonding experience with my sis. We usually don't share a whole lotta info when we're at home. But we had our moments in Bangkok! *Smiles*

Wokay wokay..I need to go sleep..Hangover+2 hrs of sleep=Very grumpy Sumi..


Thursday, December 07, 2006

Lalallaa..Who's off to Bangkok in like 7 hrs???

*Points to herself*

If you send me good vibes I may very well bring you back something yummy!! Hehe..

Till Monday my lovelies..Behave!!


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